Interview

• Tell us what you consider to be your greatest life experience.
  I have no idea. I guess I am still waiting for that high point.
• If you have to pick one thing that everyone else should absolutely know about you, what would it be?
  I refuse to take myself too seriously. 75% of the things that come out of my mouth will have some level of sarcasm to them. I love having deeper conversations about important topics to learn from perspectives other than my own, but I feel humor is a great connector and having some of that in even those heavy conversations is more productive than getting defensive or angry.
• How do you go that ‘extra mile' in your life?
  The older I have gotten, the more I have learned the importance and power of kindness, both to others and to yourself. I would rather be known for my positivity than for being a jerk. I do my best to make people feel comfortable, seen, and wanted.
• What do you do for fun?
  I enjoy hitting the gym 5 or 6 times a week, cooking (meal prep), and sex. I am a bit of a nerd, so I enjoy playing board games and video games (mostly Zelda), and I am a big horror fan. Talk spooky to me! I also love to read widely, fiction and nonfiction.
• What are your greatest personal traits?
  My sense of humor, my loyalty, and my openness.
• How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?
  I have not traveled much. I am not opposed to travel. It seems very fun and exciting, but at this point travel is a luxury I have not been able to afford. Maybe someday!
• If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.
  I would be more interested in you. I already know my story, so I would want to hear about your background, interests, and experiences. That said, I realize some people are not comfortable sharing much about themselves, and that is fine. I am very open and curious, but I will not pry.
• Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
  1.Mexican food
  2. Ice-cream
  3. Chocolate
  4. Horror movies
  5. Snuggles
• What are your hobbies? What do you like to do in your spare time?
  I am very creative. I love art, crafts, and self-expression in many forms. I usually prefer one-on-one time or small groups as opposed to large parties. I prefer to make a personal connection.
• What’s your lifestyle? What makes you who you are?
  I hit the gym early and go to sleep early. I love routine and stability, but this side hustle scratches that itch for something a little unpredictable and exciting.
• What makes you stand out from the crowd?
  I am not the most handsome, hung, or muscular guy out there, but I like to think my personality makes up for it. I am goofy, genuine, educated, relaxed, and open. I am also very reliable and trustworthy. A lot of clients tell me that I make them feel at ease, and I take that as a huge compliment. Relax, let go, and have some dirty fun.
• What is your ‘niche’?
  I would describe myself as an attentive dominant, which some people call a soft dom. When I make someone else feel good, I feel even better.
• What kind of diet and fitness regiment do you follow?
  I workout between 5/6 times a week. I love it. Diet-wise, I need to be more strict. I naturally love healthy food, but I also love sweets. I usually get a little (or a lot!) too lax during the weekend with my diet. My absolute favorite foods are Mexican and ice-cream.
• What would you like your followers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?
  I grew up in a religious household, thinking my sexual desires were sinful. When I became an adult and started exploring my sexuality, I never felt dirty or shameful like I was told I would. I have met some of the kindest, most genuine people on the pretense of sex.
• What should others absolutely know about you?
  I appreciate kindness above anything else.
• What do you enjoy most about yourself?
  My sense of humor. I crack myself up.